DREAMENTIA: (dree-men-shuh): n 1. the development, growth or awakening of creative awareness in the brain caused by the severe impairment or loss of one’s in-the-box thinking and conventional cerebral functions.


JAMECA ON TENACITY: “The exploration of the unknown brings with it a sense of accomplishment. Never back down from a challenge. That’s my motto.”


DREAMENTIA INTERNS ON THEIR THOUGHTS & DREAMS: They come, they go, yet they provide oodles of insight into our business, our company, and our idiosyncrasies.


JIM ON WHAT IT’S ALL ABOUT: ”It’s about digging in, learning, and earning the trust of those who bestow upon us the privilege and honor of opening their brands’ doors and allowing us inside to help.”

Pintertising? »

Face First into Social

Going All-In on Engaging the Social Customer to Attract and Land New Business.

Social media is the newest “it” thing for online marketing, throwing a whole new spin on integrated marketing campaigns. When some people think of social media, they think of people posting their breakfast and vacation photos on Facebook and sending love notes to celebrities on Twitter, but there is so much more value businesses get from just listening to conversations online.

I started working with social media in the health and medical fields in 2008, and that’s where I learned the value of building quality relationships – people trusted me with personal information and looked for guidance to improve their health, and that’s not something that should be taken lightly. Social media, business or personal, isn’t different from any other relationship – you build upon trust and integrity, and customers trust you with their needs. Yes, it’s important to brand your pages and post about your latest sales and marketing campaigns, but it’s more important to be the business people look to when they have needs.

As a business, who are you talking to when you engage with people on social media? Are you a business, a community member or a friend? We’re years into the social media era now and many businesses still don’t understand how to invest in social media – not just money, but time and attention. Do you know who frequents your business, who normally engages with you online, and who your tried and true loyal customers are?

Zankou Chicken is the perfect example of a business that cares, online and offline.  It’s important to them that every comment is addressed, whether that means a timely response or even just a “Like” on someone’s comment or photo. When suggestions are made, customers are thanked. When customers complain, management is contacted to make things right. Customers talk to the page as if they’re talking to family or friends because that’s the tone the business set for the page — everyone is family, everyone is welcome, and everyone’s concerns are important. People don’t like to go where they’re not taken care of, and if their issues aren’t addressed, why would they want to come back? Here are some ways to engage with customers, get a return visit, and maybe even new customers:

  • Pay attention to customers who consistently check-in and tag you. These customers are bringing attention to your business and their followers could be your next new customers.
  • Engage customers while they’re in the restaurant. If they check-in for lunch, greet them and thank them for coming in. This dialog makes them feel welcome and acknowledged for spending their hard-earned money when they could’ve gone anywhere else.
  • Pay attention to the details: note the customer who just had an anniversary date night, the customer who left a positive review because of your great cashier, or the customer who comes in with their mother every Sunday and orders the #16 combo. When customers know that you’re listening and that you truly care, others will see it and naturally gravitate towards you because everyone likes the “home” feeling.  
  • Engage customers, even when they’re not with you. Follow customers on Twitter and watch their lives unfold. Ask them about their bad day, congratulate them on their son’s good grades, comment on photos they post – build a quality relationship they can value. Next time they crave chicken, need their car fixed, or whatever your business offers, they’ll think of you first.

So next time you decide to engage with customers online, ask yourself: How am I treating my customers? Do they feel comfortable talking to me? Am I meeting their needs? If not, it’s time to change the tone and it’s time to start listening – quality relationships with your social customers will grow your business organically.

For more information about engaging your social audience, visit www.Dreamentia.com.

Reader Comments (3)

Excellent points indeed!

People often forget that social networks were initially created to help people build upon their existing relationships with their family and friends; why shouldn't brands develop the intimacy users are accustomed to seeing on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram?

Brands that learn how to do more than just sell on social media... will sell without even trying!
March 6, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterCrystal Marie
Hi Candice,

In April of 2010, the CEO of Social Media Examiner found me on Twitter. He hired me to write a press release for his upcoming educational event..

I pitched him a 'tip sheet'; he agreed. After the project was complete, he re-purposed the content and posted, "12 Social Media Secrets From World's Top Superstars" to his website on April 6th. (Perhaps making me the only person to be paid to write for his wonderful online magazine... after 4 years I feel comfy relaying that. Fun little dittys put a smile on my face.)

Well.... without asking permission, I responded to every comment on my post, becoming the first SME writer to do so. (Of course today this may seem 'old hat'. Not so then.)

Now when I say respond.... what I really mean is... mentor in the moment. I clicked on each person's avatar and read about them... making each response carefully constructed and meaningful to the best of my ability.

How could I not? I was born in New Jersey, grew up overseas, spent some time in the South and New York city and what's 5-star customer service to some is the air I breathe.

What's really cool is the content of that post... as good today as it was 4 years ago. Really.

Thanks for sharing your time energy and talent.

Terrific thinking!

Peace & profits,
Tia D.
April 18, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterTia Dobi
P.S. Ha! This is fun.

Just found a reprint of the April 2010 press release in its entirety on this blog:


Which is precisely the way we want our press releases to be used, oui?

Only this business owner made a *slight* error... because the call-to-action at the end of the release is to attend a 2010 event.

And his blog post is dated Feb 14, 2013.

Credibility counts. Proofread everything.

Nothing kills a human relationship faster than confusion.

Highest form of love?


Bank every cent from your content,
Tia D.
April 19, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterTia Dobi

PostPost a New Comment

Enter your information below to add a new comment.

My response is on my own website »
Author Email (optional):
Author URL (optional):
All HTML will be escaped. Hyperlinks will be created for URLs automatically.